General update

My last round of chemo, the fourth round, was on Thursday 1 August, and it coincided with my third Zometa infusion, which I have every 6 months to protect my bones. Unfortunately it seems that the side effects compounded each other and I had 5 days of feel wretched and incredibly nauseous. For most of the weekend afterwards I couldn't really make it out of bed, the fatigue was immense. It really knocked me back. For this reason, and because I've had so many delays this time, I was dreading chemo 5 this week. First of all, I could tell that my bloods wouldn't be good enough, so I'd be pushed back another week. And I was dreading how I'd feel, and how long the side effects were going to last. Chemo is cumulative, after all, so it stands to reason that you feel worse each round.

So on Thursday I went to my regular pre-chemo oncology appointment, but this time I was prepared for a tough conversation. When Dr M____ asked me how I was, I explained that, while I'm certainly feeling much better physically than I did when going through chemo in 2017, I've been struggling with the impact it's having on my life, and therefore my mental health is taking a battering. I have tried to avoid putting my life on hold this time, but when my chemo keeps getting delayed, it's incredibly hard to plan things. We had a good conversation about it, and we have decided to stop chemo altogether. I was so relieved I got a bit teary! There is no evidence that suggests that 6 rounds would be more effective than 4, and the cancer I had was so tiny that it's highly unlikely there are any rogue cells remaining. And if there are, 2 more rounds are not going to do anything to them if the 4 I've had already haven't nuked them! Let's face it, this chemo was elective, and my first dose was double that of the subsequent doses. As it turns out, my bloods weren't good enough anyway (platelets were only 75), so I'd have been delayed, as I predicted. But I'm so pleased we've made this decision and I don't have to go through carboplatin again.

I now have to have a CT scan (standard after a course of chemo) and I will see the oncologist again in 6 weeks' time. Then I will have a check-up every 3 months, with a CA-125 blood test (for signs of ovarian cancer) for 2 years, after which it will become every 6 months, and then every year, until I hit the magic 5-year mark.

So now I have to concentrate on getting myself stronger and fitter in preparation for my mastectomy. I have a mammogram and an MRI in October, and then I should be seeing my breast surgeon some time in November to get the results and to plan for surgery. I'm hoping that can be sometime soon in the new year. There's still quite a lot ahead but I feel as though I've passed another milestone in my treatment.

Celebrating another milestone with St John's donuts

In other news, I've been accepted as a volunteer counsellor for Breast Cancer Care, as part of their Someone Like Me programme. This is where women who are newly diagnosed can be paired with someone who has been in a similar situation, and have a series of phone calls. Before I can do this, I have to go through a training programme, and then I am mentored for my first few calls, before I'm a fully fledged counsellor. It's a voluntary position for a minimum of 3 years. I'm really looking forward to doing this. It's so important for me to 'give back' in a meaningful way, and help others going through what I've gone through.

I've also recently been seeing a new counsellor myself, through my GP, and I'm having a much better experience this time than I did with the psychotherapy team at Bart's. I see her every Thursday morning for an hour, and we've talked about so much. She has really helped me to think about things in a different way, and pursue lines of enquiry that I'm finding really helpful. I have 4 more sessions left, so hopefully that will feel like enough.

For those of you who don't follow me on instagram, I've also finished my post-treatment craft project: a baby blanket for a good friend who gave birth to a little girl a month ago. I crocheted when I was confined to my couch after both my surgeries, during chemo, and as I've been recovering each round at home. I'm so proud of the result!

The finished blanket!

Test results and other stuff

Following my last post about Scanxiety, you'll be pleased to know that my test results came back all clear. I had a little cry when my Oncologist told us, as I really had feared the worst. I feel as though I've been given a second chance, and I want to make sure I make it worth it!

Yesterday I had my first infusion of Zometa, or Zolodronic Acid. I have to have this every 6 months for 3 years. It helps protect my bones from the effects of sudden premature menapause that my other medication is plunging me into, and it also reduces the chance of the cancer coming back by a further 2%. It's administered by IV, and this was the first canula I'd had since my final chemo last September. I thought my veins would have recovered, but no! It took 4 goes to find a vein, and it hurt so much. But now I've had it done, I don't have to have it again until January. The side effects are apparently 3-4 days of 'flu-like symptoms', which I dismissed and headed into work today on my bike. But then in the afternoon it hit me like a bus. The non-air-conditioned office and intense heat didn't help! (It was 34 degrees at my desk today!) But now I really feel whacked out, my bones are aching, my head is all clogged up and all I want to do is sleep. I nearly fell asleep on my cycle home! Eek. Fingers crossed I will feel better soon. I also have calcium and vitamin D tablets on prescription: 2 a day. Thank you NHS for being totes amazeballs.

Other things I've been dealing with lately, include going to the lymphedoema clinic, and being fitted for a lovely sleeve and glove to help combat my lymphedoema (swelling of the right arm and hand due to having fewer lymph nodes to drain my lumph fluid round my body). Unfortunately heat is a trigger so this weather is not helping.

Sexy

I've also seen a physio to find out why my right hip is so sore. He's given me some exercises to do and I'm going back next week. Fingers crossed we can find out what's wrong and sort it, as I want to be able to go hiking and walking again, as well as not wake up in the middle of the night in pain!

Last week I had my final Herceptin, yay! A year's worth done and dusted. That's fewer times I'll have to go into Bart's for injections.

I've also been referred by my GP to a sleep clinic, but that's not until September, to try to help me sleep better (I'm sleeping so badly at the moment). And I've also been doing some counselling with the psycho-oncology services at Bart's, which is really helping.

So back on track! And we head off on our big, relaxing holiday on 8 August: 3 weeks in Canada. Really looking forward to relaxing and seeing some of that beautiful country, as well as catching up with our relatives there.